12 Ways to Fall in Love all Over Again - Turning Towards Your Partner
Conscious Commerce • December 17, 2020
- Take a walk hand in hand.
- Send flirty texts to each other throughout the day.
- Listen to understand.
- Pay attention to your partner more than you pay attention to your phone and/or TV.
- Reminisce about your favourite memories together.
- Share a six-second kiss, often.
- Focus on the positive qualities of each other by writing them down and posting them around the house or sending them via text throughout the week
- Show appreciation by saying "Thank you" and "I appreciate all you do".
- Dream together. Create a dream board where you jot down your goals or things you want to do as a couple
- Express the positive qualities you see in each other for 60 seconds or more
- Brainstorm a list of shared interests and start a new hobby together
- Say "I love you".
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